Why Relaxation Training Is No Longer Optional

How Muscular Relaxation Rewires Your Well-Being, Thoughts & Actions

In a world running on deadlines, alerts and pressure, relaxation is often misunderstood as a “nice-to-have.” A luxury. A bonus. Something you do when everything else is done.

But science—and 50+ years of research from mental training pioneer Lars-Eric Uneståhl—shows the opposite:

👉 Relaxation training is a foundational skill for mental performance, emotional balance and long-term well-being.It’s not optional. It’s essential.

Below is why—and how you can start today.

What Actually Happens When You Relax? (The Evidence)

Relaxation is not simply “rest.”It’s a psychophysiological state 

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• Heart rate decreases

• Breathing deepens

• Muscle tension reduces

• Cortisol levels drop

• Brain waves shift to slower, more coherent patterns

• The parasympathetic nervous system activates (“rest-and-digest”)

  
  

Uneståhl’s research in Integrated Mental Training (IMT) shows that repeated muscular and mental relaxation produces long-term changes in:

• Stress resilience

• Focus and decision-making

• Emotional regulation

• Sleep quality

• Creativity

• Habit formation

  
  

In other words:Relaxation is the doorway to higher mental functioning.

Why Muscular Relaxation Is the Fastest Way to Change How You Think & Feel

Muscles are the most direct feedback system in your body.When you tense up, your brain interprets it as danger—even if there is none.

Uneståhl demonstrated that reducing muscular tension lowers mental tension, which then:

• Calms intrusive thoughts

• Lowers emotional reactivity

• Improves problem-solving

• Reduces anxiety and irritability

• Strengthens focus and presence

Muscular relaxation is a shortcut.By teaching the body to relax, you teach the brain to follow.

Why This Matters Now (a lot)

We are living in a tension epidemic.

• People breathe from the chest instead of the diaphragm.

• Shoulders stay lifted for hours.

• Jaws remain clenched unconsciously.

• Sleep is shallow.

• Nervous systems stay in “fight or flight.”

  
  

This chronic tension becomes:

• Mood swings

• Overthinking

• Exhaustion

• Muscle pain

• Brain fog

• Anxiety

• Poor recovery

• Reduced performance at work and in life

  
  

Relaxation training is the antidote—and one of the most powerful, low-cost, evidence-based methods available.

The 10-Minute Daily Routine That Changes Everything

If you only take one thing from this article, let it be this:

Relaxation is a skill. Skills require training. Training requires repetition.

Here is a simple routine based on Uneståhl’s principles.

1. The 2-Minute Breathing Reset

Sit or lie down. Inhale through the nose for 4 seconds.Exhale slowly for 6 seconds.

Repeat 10 times.

This alone lowers your heart rate and activates the parasympathetic system.

2. The 5-Minute Progressive Muscular Relaxation

Move through the body from feet to head:

1. Tense one muscle group for 5 seconds (hand, jaws, legs, shoulders etc)

2. Release for 10 seconds

3. Notice the difference between tension and relaxation

Areas to include:

• Feet & legs

• Stomach & lower back

• Hands & arms

• Shoulders & neck

• Jaw & face

This “contrast method” trains your nervous system to recognize relaxation.

3. The 3-Minute Mental State Shift

When the body is relaxed, the mind becomes receptive.

Use a simple internal message:

• “I am calm.”

• “The tension leaves my body.”

• “Every breath makes me more relaxed.”

This anchors the state and wires the brain toward calmness and clarity.

How Fast Will You Notice Results?

Most people report immediate effects:

✔ lower tension✔ deeper breathing✔ calmer thoughts

But the long-term benefits show up after 2–4 weeks of daily practice:

• Better emotional stability

• Improved decision-making

• Mental clarity

• Lower baseline stress

• Stronger sense of control

• Better sleep and recovery

This is neuroplasticity in action.

The Most Important Point: Consistency Beats Intensity

Uneståhl’s research is clear:

Short, frequent, structured relaxation sessions beat long, occasional ones.

10 minutes a day during three weeks is enough to transform your baseline state.

You don’t need perfection.You don’t need a yoga studio.

You only need repetition.

Start Today — Your Future Self Will Thank You

Relaxation is not passive. It’s an active, trainable skill. And in today’s high-pressure world, it may be one of the most important skills you’ll ever learn.

Because when tension drops:

• Thinking sharpens

• Emotions balance

• Body heals

• Habits stick

• Performance increases

• Life feels lighter

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Your mind follows your muscles.Your actions follow your mind.Your life follows your actions.

Start with 10 minutes today.Then repeat tomorrow.Your system will change. Your life will change.